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Friday, May 28, 2010

Found my way back home.

The last few days have been spent on moving all of Zoey and I's things from my dads house to Zak's house. We've just about got all of it taken care of, but it's been a long process. Having spent the last 6 months living apart, life has been everything from a miserable struggle to something amazing where I have a new and better understanding of the kind of person I am and the kind I want to be. I must say that being apart from my husband for so long has also given me a better understanding and respect for those people who are single parents 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I am extremely thankful for my dad being there to help me out when I desperately needed it...I feel he knew exactly how to help me out because he knows what it's like, the life of a single parent. He raised my brother and I from ages 3 and 6, till today. (Can't say we turned out half bad!) My brother is graduating high school on the 3rd of June, and here I am...FINALLY getting my life back on track (at 20 lol) and moving back "home". It's nice being back home though with my husband and daughter. Life is starting to feel normal again. I'm thankful that Zak and I have been blessed with the understanding of what (in my opinion) it takes to make a marriage work-dedication (of BOTH parties), communication, and compromise. I feel like our marriage will be a lot better in the future because of what has happened to us in the past. We just need to remember that there will ALWAYS be light at the end of the tunnel-sometimes it may be hard to see....but it will definitely be there, we just have to look a little harder.

4 comments:

ashesintobeauty said...

I am happy for you both! Jeremy and I had a night of separation and it brought out A TON! And now on and off for the next month because of training in the field. (lol not my choice) Although, there are so many things that are easier now that both our eyes have been opened. There are also wounds that are re-opened and fresh that is making it something we both have to be whole hearted in. Marriage IS work. That is if you want it to be beautiful and something worth holding onto. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers. And yeah!! You have a blog!!

Hannah Madeline said...

I liked this post, it was very honest and nice to read. And I really liked what you said at the end, so true. =]

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McKenzie said...

Thank you everyone :)

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